..La Dolce Vita..

你必须找到除了爱情之外，能够使你用双脚坚强站在大地上的东西。你要找到谋生的方式，最重要是能让自己开心的方式，现在考虑不晚了。你必须把那些浮如飘絮 的思绪，渐渐转化为清晰的思路和简单的文字。华丽和漂浮都不易长久，你要知道，给予文字阅读快感不够的，内容、思想、境界、灵魂、精神和智慧，这些才重要。

不要多看那些和你一个路数的女作家的文字。不要琐碎，无病呻吟。不要想到什么就写。不要流于小感伤和小感动。我要你相信温暖、美好、信任、尊严、坚强这些老掉牙的字眼。我不要你颓废、空虚、迷茫、糟践自己、伤害别人。我不要你把自己处理得一团糟。 　 　

节制自己的感情。不是任何人都能要。体验生活，是另外一回事，并不意味着堕落和放纵。千万不要认同那些伪装的酷和另类。他们是无事可做的人找出来放任自己无事可做的借口。真正的酷是在内心。你要有强大的内心。要有任凭时间流逝，不会磨折和屈服的信念。不是因为在象牙塔中，才说出我爱世界这样的话。是知道 外面的黑、脏、丑陋之后，还要说出这样的话。好好去爱，去生活。青春如此短暂，不要叹老。偶尔可以停下来休息，但是别蹲下来张望。走了一条路的时候，记得别回头看。

伤心和委屈的时候，要嚎啕大哭，哭完洗洗脸，拍一拍，挤出一个微笑给自己看。不要揉，否则第二天早上会眼睛肿。

给自己一个远大的前程和目标。记得常常仰望天空，尤其是晚上清澈的星空。记住仰望天空的时候也看看脚下。

不要相信在恋爱上用手段的人。分手时不要口出恶言。吸取教训，但不要后悔。后悔没有用。别干撕照片、烧信、撕日记这样一类三流爱情电视剧中才有人干的事。如果真的有什么想要忘记的话就随它去吧。不在乎自然就会遗忘。

相信爱情，相信好男人在茫茫人海中终会寻觅到你。

找不到答案的事情就不要再想，不要自己给自己忧伤的陷阱。

不可以恨这个世界。因为你那么爱它它不会让你失望的。

爱物质，适当地。永远知道精神更重要。比那些名表、名牌、时装，更加美丽的是你自己。再精致的妆容也比不上健康纯真的微笑。

别瞧不起劳动人民，不要为劳动羞耻。土地不脏，汗味也不难闻。请尊重那些似乎生活状况不如你的人，因为这样才是尊重自己。永远体恤那些生活在底层的人们，因为我们的亲人就是在这些人群中。我们不娇贵。

不要小看一分钱。不妨自己去挣挣看。

被朋友伤害了的时候，别怀疑友情，但提防背叛你的人。原谅，但并不遗忘。做人存几分天真童心，对朋友保持一些侠义之情。

有小心机的女生是可爱的，但别把这种心计用在勾心斗角上，那样会很累。

喜欢不喜欢不是嘴说就能证明什么，因为它存在于我们的内心。纵使嘴里说“不喜欢”并不能阻挡爱本身。所以有些事情不要去强求说出口才行的话语。

做人不要太高调，高调容易招惹是非。但也不能太低调，该强悍时则强悍，但切不可咄咄逼人。 同情那些比你可怜弱小的人，乐于助人，永远心存善念，怜悯，会使你高贵。

宽待自己，也宽待别人。当你不会因为小小的不如意小小的事而生气或难过的时候，你会轻松很多。

要原谅这世界和自己。要告诉自己，我值得拥有最好的一切。 要快乐，要开朗，要坚韧，要温暖，这和性格无关。

55..今天出丑了,下课回宿舍的时候,因为太"专心"盯着某人,脚一踩空,就从楼梯下"啪啦"摔了个趔趄.......

然后有大约十位~是啊..十位 同班同学看到了....哎呀...虽然没笑我..不过不保证他们以后会不会把这件事当笑料啊~~不过,说定了哦..大家表再提了哦..我有时很"脆弱"的哈..要不是我可会揶揄回你的啊~.

 

 

When the whole worlds turning left, thats when Im going right. I need someone to let me be just who I am inside..

+ OIL +OIL.

Maybe you guys will say "Why you always traveled around?" Well , in fact, i have to do the school visit twice a week!!..OMG~~ for a whole day~~But, i love it~ Coz i can be with so many cute children.

The school i visited is called Inchmarlo Pre. School. It is a boy school for p1 - p7. I was told that this is the best Pre school in the city! Have to mention is that, teachers there are so nice! They not only provied desert to me when having break. They also taught me so many teaching skills.   Took the children to city tour. And, i ever had chance to teach the children something about China! Wow..and my Teacher--Laurence was there , observed me!! To be honest, i was quite nervous at the beginning. However, due to the children were soso active, i was so in the mood.^^..And the teachers gave me so high credit! *smile*.. 

Now i wanna mention something about the educational differences.

As far as I know, there are some differences in education system between U.K. and China. Here are some examples. The ages for children to go to primary school is different; here is 4-11,yet in China is 6-12.Another big difference is the categories of schools. In U.K., there are controlled schools, voluntary(maintained) schools and voluntary (non-maintained) schools. And there are protestant schools and catholic schools. In China we just have one type of school, namely, government-managed schools. Schools in the whole country have almost the same subjects and they have no big differences in the teaching policy. But there’re some big differences between the condition of schools. Owing to the funds for the big cities and remote areas schools have large differences. After our primary study, we no need to take Transfer Test to go to junior schools ;we go to junior school which is near where we live. That is to say, it depends on the location.  I started my school observation from the first week of October, and I treasure this opportunity. Due to different conditions, China has a different method to train teacher. In my university, we start our observations in the second semester of year 3,and start to teach as practice teachers in our year 4.Namely,we don’t have much teaching experience as students here. Moreover, as far as I know, primary teacher here teaches many subjects whereas we have different teacher teaches different subject in China. And the number of students here is just around half or one third compared with China.

The classroom here is more amusing that we don’t have such colorful posters and book corner in China. I think classroom with the science related posters and the book corner will do a great help to increase children’s interests to learn new knowledge. A teacher’s job in China involves teaching one of the subjects to a number of classes in the same grades, which is different from here. And teachers don’t have their own classroom, teachers teach in different classrooms and each grade has their own staff-room. Teachers have their own desks and computers in the staff-room. There is another thing I should be aware is the dressing code of teachers in U.K.. In China, most of the time, children just sit there and listen to teacher talking about the facts by rote. Teacher is more in favor of student give the right answers. Nowadays this situation changes a lot because we realize that guessing out the answers is a very helpful process for study.

Let’s take a closer look to the students in class. Children here are so active and willing to answer questions through their own guessing. At the same time, teacher encourages  children to keep on guessing even though some answers are not right. In China, most of the time, children just sit there and listen to teacher talking about the facts by rote. Teacher is more in favor of student give the right answers. Nowadays this situation changes a lot because we realize that guessing out the answers is a very helpful process for study.

 

*NOT The End* 

Pizs of my boyszzz~~

 

Jack, Jack, Zac!

 

 

Conker competition! The hottest game ~

 

 

I am so appreciated that i have so many friends around me, making me feel like a princess.....:)..

When i was in U.K. the first week, I did felt a little bit down. Not only i was the ONLY one from my University, everything was so so different from home. However, i did overcame the obstacle...Smile to the life..Because i have You , Jim, Nina, Vicky, Beate, Carmen, Jade, Rozi, Ruth, Andre, Sven, my uncle paul and many.:)

We had so many good time. We travelled to Giant's Causeway, we went to the geographical trip to Ireland. We three bought so cheap flight to London, and enjoyed the musical so much. We cooked Chinese food together. We went to night club, althought we lost our way one time.Lol. We dressed up as a witch in the Halloween day. We had bonfire, sang on the beach at 2 a.m. We studied together for our presention. We, We.......

It makes me in a multinational atmosphere; I have so many chances to be with people from different countries , different background, different culture. Moreover, it makes me deeply feel , ah, in fact, people are the same. It's not that complicated as i thought to communicate people. No matter where is he from, which region he believes, what kinda culture he has.

We are having lunch beside the sea when doing research .

Traveled to Giant's Causeway.

The night in Halloween.:) Having bonfire~

 白天的BIG FISH..在这里有必要介绍一下这条大鱼啊,可以说是BELFAST的地标了~~

 它是由不同的陶瓷粘贴而成的.走近一看,每一片陶瓷片都非常有意思.都印上了一些关于BELFAST的图画,新闻...

下面是官方介绍:

If you're visiting the Lagan Lookout, or admiring the Customs House, you'll notice this big fish, commissioned to crown the face lift of the Belfast docks. It's by John Kindness, and the most interesting things about this fish are its beautiful blue scales. Take a closer look: every scale is a tile, and every tile tells a story about the city going back hundreds of years. What looks from a distance to be a simple sculpture becomes intricate and puzzling. Questions proliferate as the onlooker is drawn from tile to tile, from sailing ship to cartoon to portrait, and the sculpture (and the city) suddenly become more diverse and more surprising than before. Clambered on by children, admired by everyone who comes close enough to see its story, the Big Fish has already become Belfast's best-loved sculpture.

The Big Fish at night. I visited it at my last night in Belfast.

By chance, Jim took me to an awesome concert in Waterfront that night. So we decided to walk along the river and fullfill my dream to kiss the fish.  Coz i heard that, the big fish  will bring good luck to the people who kisses it!

 X'mas market in City Hall..

下面看看两张我无意中在文件夹里发现的照片. 觉得好美........

I passed this road almost everyday. One morning, on my way to school, i saw the sun-shine brightly on the tree. How gorgeous!

 This picture was taken in Dec.. The leaves all fell from the tree.

 (转贴)

——访美国哈佛大学积极心理学讲授者泰勒.本-沙哈尔博士


　 幸福是什么？如何找寻幸福？其实幸福快乐的奥秘就在你自己手中，在于你的视角、你的理解、你的心态、你的选择，换一种视角生活，以积极战胜消极，学会“自我帮助”，你会发现离幸福更近一步—— 　    泰勒·本-沙哈尔(TalBen-Shahar)...

BELFAST,其实以前对它一点都不了解.只知道是JIM 和 NINA的故乡,从他们口中知道BELFAST城市虽小,可是环境很优美.人们都很会生活,工作度假两不误.

告别了阴霾的爱丁堡,飞往BELFAST.下机,发现BELFAST的阳光是如此地和绚,暖而不灼,让人顿觉懒洋洋地.JIM 把我带去了学校,入住学生宿舍,注册登记,拿日程表,一切都进行得紊紊有序..并且要赞一下宿舍,一个人的单间,比在华师的条件好多了.

第一个星期没有什么学习任务,JIM & NINA就做为东道主带我去ARDS 和 BANGOR ROAD TRIP

NINA家阳台往外望,其实不远处就是海了!

  在路上.

    ~风景唯我独好~

   澄清的海水

   水上摩托&RIDER

   很喜欢这张啊..水,天,地..晃如一体..

   坐船渡河

      码头景色

  我猜它们是卖鱼的~那船上的不就是"金鱼老"?!?!哈哈

    意料之外,路上我们见到城堡.里面没人的~真想把它给占了~

     城堡的花园一觎..翠绿的草地加上当时天边一角的红霞.. 暴美啊..

    城堡还有 ADVENTURE GARDEN @.!

  我们玩得可欢啦~^^~

告别父母, 独自一人向英国奔去，心里是那么地兴奋。很荣幸我可以去英国做为交换生，即使是孑然一身。Mummy和daddy 一直想送我去坐飞机，可是我拒绝。因为我早已做好“功课”，知道坐什么车，怎么坐。并且我觉得一个人挺COOL的，是我独立的一个很好佐证。

 

在路上折腾了好一段时间才到香港国际机场，恩。。check in, on board..最后等到晚上11点50分才上BA的航班。坐下，发现其实国际航班的座位空间很窄的，OMG， 我的神啊。11个多小时，要这样直立着睡觉，会很不爽的！不过值得欣慰的是每个座位前都有一个小的screen，可以听歌，玩连机游戏和看电影。YEO。我一定会物尽其用的。一上飞机就跟邻座女生聊上了，她是一为将要去LEEDS读MASTER的菲律宾女生，很是NICE。一路上我们聊了很多，最后留下了各自的email以便keep in touch. ~希望她在那边一切安好~学习顺利~!

 

在伦敦转机去我的第一个目的地---SCOTLAND的首府EDINBURGH，一个我梦萦魂牵许久的地方。之前在lonely planet 看过相关的介绍，里面有很多出名的景点及美食介绍。像是爱丁堡城堡啦，Cliton Hill，小狗Bobby,地窖等。还有传统的苏格兰美食Haggis（注：将羊的心,肺,肝等内脏和燕麦粉煮成的食物）。我尝了，可是不太喜欢，味道有点怪！

 

我在Edinburgh呆了近4天，因为有个深圳的师姐在那里，对我超级好。不但提供我住的地方，多次下厨给我弄好吃的还有带我到处逛！甜蜜蜜啊~~

下面上照片~ 我住的街道啊~    街上演奏苏格兰传统乐器(BAGPIPE)的老伯伯      爱丁堡城堡（Edinburgh Castle ）鲜花妖娆.

是苏格兰的重要象征，耸立在死火山岩顶上。美丽而浪漫的城堡令人回想起这座城市血雨腥风的历史。城堡最早可以追溯到公元前850年，现存最古老的部分为1150年的建筑。

   城堡的山脚下有提供给小朋友游玩的设施.

 在城堡里.

 从城堡上远眺.

 远眺Again. 大家都看到,爱丁堡是背山面海的.

小狗BOBBY & JIM,Nina~    

  CLITON HILL!  

   感觉是有点像雅典卫城.

  

   Royal Mile,是爱丁堡旧城的最主要街道,通往城堡的必经之路.

    街道旁的橱窗.

   我们还发现了好可爱的长鼻子皮诺曹~

   日落的PRINCE STREET 是爱丁堡新城的主要商业街道.

    从PRINCE STREET 看城堡.

其实爱丁堡是一个不大的城市, 主要的景点和名胜之间都可以徒步到达.

 SCOTLAND NATIONAL  MUSEUM ...

  THE EDINBURGH DUNGEON.意思是地牢.  

  里面是挺恐怖的,还有真人SHOW啊.那些演员扮鬼扮马,很吓人~   

 

 

　　其实我是挺讨厌码字的，怎么说，可能是脑袋不勤思考的缘故吧．之前口口声声答应了同学要把在英国的生活＆趣事记下，到现在，一个pi也没有　．我只好等几天做个倒叙了吧～！

       权且以此BLOG来做小记录，小计划，小总结。

                       ~开张，散花，鼓掌~